While
working on a spiritual disciplines research paper on prayer...I reviewed John
Ortberg's book "The Life You've Always Wanted". He quotes a saying by C.S. Lewis "Joy is
the serious business of heaven." He
then goes on to describe the practice of celebration in his household as a
"DEE DAH DAY" ....when one is
too happy to hold it in any longer; when words are inadequate to give voice to
euphoria - you have to do the DEE DAH DAY dance of joy!
But how do you have a DEE DAH DAY when a loved one is suddenly
is taken through an accident; or a neighbor family loses the Father in their
family; a member of the military is gunned down in Afghanistan or Iraq? This has been the kind of week it has been
for me. The overwhelming realization
that heaven rejoices as it receives a saint, and the overwhelming sadness for
those left behind without the physical presence of their loved one on earth any
longer. I feel that many have grieved,
and grieved well. And, oh how we anticipate our own personal timing, the grand
entrance to heaven to embrace those waiting for us there.
Jane
Hansen Hoyt of Aglow International states:
“Christianity begins with closure! When a tragedy occurs you might hear
someone say “I need closure in order to move on with my life.” I’ve got good
news. Jesus opened up the new way for all to enter into. He paid the ultimate
price to “bring closure” to ALL hurt, pain and disappointment.
My blessing is in knowing that I do not have perfect faith,
but that I am being perfected. And in my
process, I watch the process of others.
And this is what I have noticed – even the Father of Faith, Abraham, did
not always have perfect faith. But he
just hung on. He placed himself in God’s
hands. He kept running his race. And then he, just like you and me, came to
understand the reason we can trust God is that He too understands what it is to
walk in darkness. God does not stand
apart from our suffering. He is not
unmoved by the creatures He has created and loves. He embraces our pain and He suffers with
us. As a church body, as neighbors and
friends, we too should embrace the pain and the suffering of others. And, I do know that Jesus will take me
through the hurt, the pain and any disappointment. I watched the dignity and faith and strength and courage of a woman I admire say goodbye to her sweetheart husband of many years - moving through, embracing, but also giving quiet firm faith, to others as together we grieved. She has modeled for those with eyes to watch; with eyes to see; with hearts to be transformed.
In the solitude with Father God, my mind stills and is
quiet before him. I receive peace. I acknowledge that He is ever present – and I
ask for Him to teach me joy, patience, greater love, courage, and
forgiveness. I am thankful for God’s
mercy and His love – and the refreshing begins to sweep over me. I remember the sweet conversations with loved
ones, with neighbors, those who have left this earth – and I embrace the joy of
having known those who have run their race with endurance, love, integrity and
with credibility. It is my blessing.
To miss out on joy is to
miss out on the reason for your existence states Lewis Smedes.
Rejoice in the Lord always;
again I say, rejoice exhorted Apostle Paul.
The Bible puts joy in the
non-optional category...Yikes - Joy is a command! Joylessness is a serious sin - one that
"religious" people are particularly prone to. However, we heard it loud - we heard it clear
during the celebration of life service of a good friend and Christian Brother
passing through death to enter heaven…
Look to the cross!
Every tick of the clock is a gift from God!
Every day is a DEE DAH Day! Joy Comes With the Morning!
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